The internet can be a dizzying place to search for information about divorce. We highly recommend finding (and asking for!) in-person support from friends, family, mental health professionals, divorce coaches, and even "that one person on Facebook that you used to know and looks like she had a good divorce." Here are some other favorite resources of ours, some for legal knowledge and some for emotional healing work. Hugs to you.

favorite books:

favorite podcasts:

Divorce Well — interviews with divorce practitioners from many angles
The Divorce Field Guide — lots of practical, logistical, and legal info
Journey Beyond Divorce — great for healing through and after divorce
Divorced People Podcast — Nicole’s podcast about divorce, marriage, and relationships
Divorced People Patreon — a community-funded site where Nicole is building a podcast centering divorce, and featuring Nicole’s writings on the topic

other helpful spots:

NC Collaborative Attorney Network — find other collaborative attorneys and collaborative resources
IACP Member Directory — find a collaborative lawyer in your area